Daniel Yang - Proximity, Refugees, and Finding God in Displacement
Jessie Cruickshank: Well,
welcome to the ordinary
discipleship Podcast. I'm Jesse
Cruikshank, and today I have
with me my dear friend Daniel
Yang. Daniel and I have known
each other. Gosh, I don't know.
I think we're going on 1112,
years. I'm not
Unknown: sure. Yeah,
Jessie Cruickshank: but Daniel
and I knew each other three
careers ago, and we have both
changed different seasons of
life in the time. And for me,
Daniel has been one of those
people in my life that is like a
spiritual brother to me. It
doesn't matter what my season
is, what his season is. I always
Daniel. I always feel connected
to you. You're always the Lord
brings you to my mind. I pray
for you regularly, and so I
don't know what that means in
the grand scheme of things,
maybe, maybe we live in the same
cul de sac, although I don't
think that we're like cul de sac
people, but in heaven, like
maybe we live in the same
housing development. It's
probably something cooler than a
cul de sac. But just feel like
you, you've been part of my life
the last decade or so in this
very spiritual brother kind of
way. And I'm so excited to
introduce my audience to you and
the amazing work that you're
doing with World Relief these
days. So welcome to the ordinary
discipleship
Daniel Yang: podcast that's so
cool, so special. Thanks. Jesse,
yeah, I feel the same way. I'm
just scrolling through our text
right now. I'm like, wow, you
know, it's just the the range of
experiences and processing and
prayer in seasons that we've
been through together, you know?
So that that is makes this
conversation even, even more
special. And you know, the work
that you're doing your gift mix
like, I feel like I'm always
connected to people that have
like this, this, like, eclectic
convergence of skill and life
story. So I think that's part of
the reason why I was gonna say
quirky. But it's not a quirky
thing. It's a eclectic, that's
my word eclectic. So
Jessie Cruickshank: which could
also mean quirky,
Daniel Yang: which? Well, I
mean, who else does wilderness
experience in neuroscience and
Jessie Cruickshank: not a lot of
people, but exactly. But will
you introduce, introduce
yourself to our audience and
share a little bit about the
work that you do with World
Relief, and whatever backstory
you feel like you want to add to
that. Yeah,
Daniel Yang: yeah, yeah. So, as
you mentioned, I work for an
organization World Relief as a
Senior Director of Global
Mission and church movements.
And World Relief has been an
organization that has been on
the front lines for over 80
years, front lines of the result
of consequences of war,
catastrophe, disaster. It's an
NGO. It's a humanitarian
organization, but it's it's much
more than that. It is really the
church being in the places that
is hardest in the world and in
the United States for nearly
five decades, World Relief has
helped churches work with
vulnerable immigrants, refugees,
traumatized people who have come
to this country and then are
trying to restart their life,
and I never had envisioned
myself working for a
humanitarian mission
organization like World Relief,
but it's always, it has sort of
always been, I think, I guess, a
natural place for me to end up,
because of my own family. Story
is former refugees from Laos and
came to this country in the late
70s, 1979 and really just taking
on multiple layers of identity,
whether that's a national
identity as an American, we
became Christians through this
process of refugee resettlement.
So there's a religious,
spiritual, you know, shaping and
formation that happened in our
refugee experience and then the
different contexts that I've
lived in. You know, my parents
were resettled in East Moline,
Illinois, which is kind of
rural, small town, cornfields
Illinois, but very quickly moved
us into inner city, Detroit. If
you all have seen the movie Gran
Torino, that gives you a good
sense of, sort of how I grew up
ethnically I'm Hmong. And so
that movie was about the Hmong
refugee immigrants that have
kind of restarted their lives in
inner city, Detroit. So for me,
I feel like my work. You know,
they say this about PhD
research, that sometimes
research is me search, and maybe
it's sort of kind of true that I
now work for World of leave
because I'm I'm trying to, like,
make meaning of my story, if
that makes sense, and this gives
me proximity to other people's
stories to help me understand my
own story as well. So along the
way, my wife and I, we got.
Married at 19. So that's
another, you know, interesting
layer. We have five kids. I had
my first career as an engineer,
and then eventually pastored,
planted churches, missiology, so
all that, yeah,
Jessie Cruickshank: you have
five beautiful children who what
the oldest is in college, right?
Daniel Yang: Oldest is now just
working, 24
Jessie Cruickshank: Okay,
Daniel Yang: and then my
youngest is seven, so pretty big
range,
Jessie Cruickshank: dude, it's
it's a huge range. You're gonna
be a parent forever.
Daniel Yang: I know isn't that
crazy we were because the first
three were like 2422 and 20 and
then there's a nine year gap
between the third and fourth. So
we thought we were going to be
empty nesters at 45
Jessie Cruickshank: Yeah. What
happened to that plan?
Daniel Yang: Well, you know, God
has his own way of writing your
story. So, so I often joke with
people like I have two sets of
children with the same spouse,
because it feels that way.
Jessie Cruickshank: Well, yeah,
but your wife, Linda, is
amazing. She's crazy. She at
least this time last year,
worked also in refugee
resettlement,
Daniel Yang: yes and Yep. She
feels very called to that work.
And so she also works for World
Relief. And still, still, God
has her there. So she works
directly with refugees looking
for work. It's amazing. Like
her, she literally is helping to
save lives by helping people
find work. And so, yeah, it's, I
really love the work that she's
doing.
Jessie Cruickshank: So it's so
beautiful. Like I remember we
met being nerds trying to help
the church on a missiologist
Council, and like trying to help
the church in North America see
its neighbor, reach out to its
neighborhoods, reach out to the
next generations. We nerded off
around Gen Z and church planting
for a while, and now it seems
like life has taken us in this
direction where we're not
trying. We're not only trying to
help people love their neighbor,
but also love their enemy, love
their friend, see who they're
called to even more broadly. And
I remember, you remember Boston,
I'm sure, I'm sure you remember
right? Like Boston gathering,
Daniel Yang: yeah,
Jessie Cruickshank: forge Ford
Foster was, was, I think it was
pivotal in a lot of different in
multiple ways, but one of which
is that your story actually
helped me understand my story
and helped me and helped me name
some things that I couldn't have
articulated before without you.
And you were sharing, and I know
you, you know this, but, but you
were sharing the different
perspectives and the different
narratives that exist in people
groups in in America. So there's
the everything is getting worse.
Narrative, like, like, of course
the rapture is going to come.
It's so bad, and it's just
getting worse, and so Jesus has
to come get us. So there's that
narrative. There's a narrative
of, hey, the world is getting
better. It's growing and who God
is for me in this this time. And
as you were naming these
different narratives of these
different populations, and I'll
have you share that
specifically, because I'm
already screwing it up, what I
remember the most clear is that
you shared what an immigrant and
a refugee narrative is. So an
immigrant and a refugee coming
to America, how God has saved
them, how God has helped them,
and of course, of course, God's
for them. Of course, God's with
them. Coming out of these
terrible circumstances that
causes somebody to be a migrant
and a refugee that God is the
author of that story. For them,
and the way that you described
it really named some things for
me, because coming from a middle
of nowhere, Wyoming, and not
feeling very connected to the
evangelical Christian
establishment that I was serving
in vocationally like I didn't
understand why they always
thought the world was ending. I
didn't understand why they
always thought things were bad,
because God saved me from my
life, and and and I, and growing
up next to the reservation of
the Indian Reservation, I felt,
I'd always felt like an
immigrant into evangelical
Christianity, and so you named
some of those things for me, and
I, I really appreciate that. So
so maybe kind of if you could
share just a little bit of those
different narratives for our
audience and and help us
understand the way that a
migrant and a refugee actually
experiences God and and that
story that they're living in
that God is that God is writing
for them?
Daniel Yang: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Thanks. Thanks for setting that
up, because I do remember us
having those conversations and
how, in some ways, the the
immigrant. Narrative, although
comes from a particular kind of
life experience, there is a
shared experience of like, you
know, trying to make meaning of
our trauma, trying to make
meaning of our not just personal
story, but sort of like, what
led up to those moments of
trauma in our lives. And so
that's a human activity. You
know, it's not, it's not
relegated to the immigrant or
refugee experience, but
immigrants and refugees do
experience that in a very unique
way. What I shared in Boston,
and also have been spending a
lot of time, you know, even in
the last it's probably been
three or four years since Boston
thinking through this. I at that
point I was I was talking about
some of this in terms of what
sometimes is called the arrival
narrative. At times have used
the term fulfillment narrative.
The Arrival narrative sort of is
this idea that like
displacement. That's probably
the larger word for the
different categories of people
that have had to leave home,
displacement is a disruptor, and
it causes a very traumatic life
experience. And then for those
who have felt like they've had
to force leave home, like they
were forced to leave home, they
can't return. How do they make
meaning of that? You know, how
do I? How do I make meaning of
the war catastrophe, the
killing, the lost lives and and
then to then restart your life
here in America in the 21st
Century, and the arrival
narrative really has an
imagination for well, God, you,
you, you don't author war or
catastrophe. You, you surely did
not cause these things to
happen, but you are sovereign
enough to direct and to and to
make good. And so the arrival
narrative is discovering God
amid that, you know, and asking,
God, where are you in my
family's experience? And this is
goes on to the second and the
third generation, and it begins
to give a bit of like meaning
and purpose to the pain. And
part of the reason why I've
often often talked about it as a
fulfillment narrative as well is
that there becomes a full circle
moment when you begin realizing
that, Oh, wow. Like as somebody
who is once a part of a
community that was highly
traumatized, I now am also a
part of what God is doing to
bring healing to others, right?
And so there's sort of a full
circle fulfillment concept
there. And again, I don't think
this is unique to the immigrant
and refugee experience. I think
it's a human project, but the
way that we've experienced it,
and it takes, it's generate, it
takes generations, right? It's
not something that you can
experience within five to 10
years or even 40 years. You
know, it takes, you know, my
parents, in my generation, and
my children, and we're still
asking that question, Jesus has
been the lens through which
we've tried to understand our
experience and our trauma and
tried to reimagine our
experiences. And it's not
simple, like it's not as easy as
saying, Well, Jesus is on the
throne. That's not what I'm
saying. Although he is on the
throne, thank God. And it's not
as simple as saying, Well, now
that I'm a believer now and I'm
saved, then at least I'm going
to heaven. Because it's not that
simple either, although that is
a beautiful fact, it's this
reimagining of like Jesus in the
project of war. And like you
were saying earlier, when you
are othered, and you see people
as enemies, and you see people
as you know, causing harm and
violence, and you're asking the
question, Jesus, how do you it's
very much what Miroslav both
wrote about back in the 90s. I'm
drawing a blank on his name, on
the book of his name, but he
talks about, essentially, how do
you find Jesus amid conflict and
tension and even violence? And I
feel like immigrants and
refugees are the embodiment of
of what that looks like.
Jessie Cruickshank: What do you
think is the reason that God is
asking us, as the body of
Christ, always in Scripture, to
like be a safe place for them,
to receive them, to show
hospitality, to welcome them, to
feed them, to take care of the
foreigner, the widow, the
orphan, the immigrant, the
person who is homeless or and
country less and things like
that. Like, what do you think
the Lord's plan is, and why he
challenges us to do that?
Daniel Yang: It's his nature. I
mean, it is. It is his nature to
to give of yourself to find a
greater sense of life and
completion. I think it all flows
from the character of God, who
he is, and what it means to
instill in a people his nature
and his character, and so I
think that's kind of like the
big the big idea, you know, I
think when it comes to the
experiential aspect, what? So,
you know, just to kind of, what
does it mean for the church to
create welcome for those that
are we would consider vulnerable
in society? Because in some
ways, that is acting according
to our nature. We're we're in
the image of God. We're
especially as as followers of
Jesus. We're modeling, you know,
our life after Jesus, which is
an incarnational, sacrificial,
other oriented lifestyle. And
it's in, in some ways, you know,
Jesus said this himself. It's in
losing yourself that you sort of
find yourself right. There is no
indication from the Bible where,
if you accumulate a lot of
things, and if you, if you pack
your storehouses, then you are
more like God, you know, like
there's no teaching in the
Bible, and that says, If you
fill up your storehouses and if
you relish yourselves in the
most comfortable places, then
you will find more of God,
right? It's sort of the
opposite. In Zechariah, when God
is speaking to His people. He's
saying, hey, you know, if you
turn your ear away from the
orphans, the poor, the widow and
the foreigner, the way that you
turn your ear away from them,
that's exactly what I'll do to
you. In some ways, a part of it
is to reveal to us again that
that is his nature to to empty
yourselves. I mean, it's, it's
what Paul writes about Jesus in
Philippians. He, he, he divests
himself. The practical, you
know, aspect of that is when I
love somebody who almost,
virtually impossible, can't give
to me what I've given to them,
then there is a beautiful
exchange of life that that
happens that is close to the
Divine Right. That's what Jesus
is saying at the parable of the
banquet. You know, you invite
those who can repay you. What's
the point? And so there is
something almost divine about
reaching out to those who can't
repay you. And so I think in
some ways, having seen this
happen in my life, having this,
seen this happen over and over
in churches and everyday
Christians, you know, you know
the saying, you know, I received
more than I've given like that
is certainly true. And I think
the only self preserving thing
about that, because I think
there's some, some, some some
self preservation involved in
doing this kind of work is that
you realize that this is some
eschatology here for your
listeners. But you know, when
you get to the end of
everything, when you get to the
end of like, all the pain and
the suffering, Revelation
Chapter 22 and you see Jesus
face to face, like the intensity
in which we believe that we
should love those that are most
different from us, like that
will be given back to us, and
it'll it'll be revealed to us,
like how important that was,
like that level of Like giving
and so and that that's why the
Bible talks about like having
crowns and treasure in heaven
and stuff like that, which I
don't think is necessarily like
physical, material wealth. It is
the intensity in which you give
out and pour out your life on
this side of his coming that's
going to be translated into
meaningful wealth on the other
side,
Jessie Cruickshank: yeah, I like
to say that we're not
accountable for what we know,
but we're accountable for how we
love. And
Unknown: you
Jessie Cruickshank: know what I
what I love about what you're
saying, If I can connect some
dots that are that are happening
in my head, is that the the
person who's been on this
journey, the refugee, the
immigrant, the migrant, because
of the trauma they've
experienced, which is why
they're moving, right? They're
not just moving because they're
trying to take advantage of
something. They're moving
because they cannot live where
they are like something terrible
is happening, right? It is. It
is a migration born out of
trauma and trial and horrific
circumstances and suffering and
all of that. And so they,
because of that journey, they
have asked questions of God.
They've experienced God in ways.
And then they come, you know,
if, if I'm sitting in my church
in North America, in Denver,
they're coming to my door, and
there's an. Understanding they
have of God in a way that they
process their trauma, or a way
that they're talking with God
about that that I don't know,
right? I might have trauma in my
background, but I don't
necessarily know how to process
it, because maybe I haven't seen
it, maybe I haven't asked those
questions, but, but when I think
about the gift that migrants and
refugees are because of their
experience, because of the way
that they have encountered God.
There's an understanding they
have of God that is a gift to
everyone else. So like to reject
them is like rejecting the
Prophet. It's like turning out
the you know, rejecting Jesus
even because you're like, Oh,
you have a thing, but I don't
actually need it. And so we
don't see that they have
something that we need. Because
I think we often think about
taking care of migrants and
foreigners and refugees as a
charity, not as a gift of God to
us to teach us something about
his nature and his character
that we wouldn't necessarily
understand otherwise. And so
when we reject them, we're
actually rejecting this gift of
God, this part of his nature,
this messenger, this missionary
I know, I know some of the
people that we know are
literally missionaries to North
America that are being, you
know, removed or a danger for
things like that, and, and so
we're saying, Hey, we don't need
your message. We're fine. And,
and so even more than an act of
charity, which I think on some
level, it is, but it's actually
a gift to be received, you know,
these these people and their
stories, and it makes me think
about what Jim Wilder teaches
about enemy mode, where, you
know, enemy mode is the state of
the brain, where we perceive
that what the person in front of
us is an enemy. And there,
there's lots of reasons, and
we're all different, so whatever
triggers us, and we're like,
wait a minute, I don't know if
this person is safe. And so we
go, our brain goes into enemy
mode. So it goes, like, into
this lockdown, right? It's like
we put up a force field while we
assess the risk and we figure
out what to do. The problem is
that when we're in enemy mode,
and it could be it's it's for
protection, it's in order to
strategize. But the problem of
it is that if we stay there, we
cannot receive from that which
is other than us. We cannot
receive from that which is
outside of us, which includes
not only that person in front of
us, but also the Holy Spirit. We
literally cannot hear the Holy
Spirit when we're in enemy mode
and we're perceiving that who is
in front of us as an enemy. So
not only can we not receive from
them? We can't receive from God.
We are not receiving God through
them, and we're not hearing God
on our own anyway. And so I
just, I just think about how God
is always challenging us to love
our enemy, to receive from that
which is other than us, and just
how much we're failing at that
right now, and I and I feel like
that's a strategy of the demonic
that is the spiritual warfare of
our day. Because I don't think
that at least the people that I
talk to are not that prone to
thinking of other people as
enemies, right? I think, I think
we're being encouraged in that.
I think we're being
propagandized into that. I think
the algorithms on our phones and
all of these things are are
pushing that, because then we
click and we do things. But how
is that experience landing with
the people that you work with?
You know, if, if we think about
the person who's come from a
place, maybe they're Christian,
and then they came from a
country where there's
persecution, and now they're
here, and now they're
experiencing persecution. Like,
like, what is? How is this
posture of enemy mode landing
with the people that you serve,
and in now they're going to be a
refugee twice. I don't I mean,
like, what are, how are they
experiencing this and and what
is that like for for people,
Daniel Yang: yeah, yeah. I mean,
and some of maybe what you're
alluding to is the change in
posture and policies in in the
United States right now, towards
certain categories of
immigrants, and especially those
who losing protected status,
legal status. And then those
which announced as of the
recording on this particular
podcast a little bit over a week
ago, even refugees that were
admitted during Biden, even all
of them 230,000 and will be
reinvestigated. So breaking the
enemy mode. I mean, that is,
that's a huge summing block,
because I don't think we quite
know how socialized we are into
categorizing certain kinds of
immigrants as as enemies and so
and this is. Always been a
challenge for every generation,
throughout not just Western
history, but world history, the
language that a particular group
of people will drain your
economy, will threaten the
security of your country, and
then are taking resources from
another you know, demographic.
This is sort of old hat language
and rhetoric, and it gets
rehashed in different ways, and
certainly in some cases like
those, things have happened
before. So I don't want to say
that, that that all of that is
completely untrue. You know, we
have seen it in nations where
there are times where security
is being threatened and stuff
like that, but usually not by
refugees. You know, it's usually
by, like, actual military force
where, where I've seen this
happen that is disturbing to me
is where it used to be that,
let's say refugees, which is a
very classified group of people.
It used to be that, like,
Americans weren't afraid of
refugees, you know. But almost
within a few years, there's now
this layer and veneer of like
skepticism, you know. And the
average American in the world
might, they might have not
thought this before, but now
there's a check, you know. And I
think enemy making starts with
that, you know, that suspicion
where it's just kind of like,
Yeah, but do I really know
everything about that person?
And do I, you know? And so, and
it's that, that tussle between
that, that check, that's, you
know, and then all of a sudden,
there are reasons for you to
then give in to that suspicion,
and then, and then, usually it
becomes almost conspiracy,
spiritorial, or you actually
have a negative experience, like
you experience a negative
experience, and and and then,
which justifies your suspicion.
And then, you know, and then you
turn, turn into enemy mode. And
I feel like that is something
that has always been a threat.
And I think Jesus's words, the
Sermon on the Mount, you know,
to love your enemy, that is sort
of the the ethic in the morality
of what it means to be a
follower of Jesus like that is a
constant, like tension that is a
our move towards our enemy, for
the sake of reconciliation and
for the sake of love, is a
discipline. It is a spiritual
discipline, you know, just like
reading your Bible, just like
going into church, you know,
being in spaces, you know, not
saying, like every space should
be this, but being in spaces
where you often feel
uncomfortable and you might
suspect something about a group
of people and they might suspect
something about you, like that
is a discipline to be in, and in
some ways, that's always been
where the church grew, and the
church has been like, awesome,
and that's part of the reason
why we understand the persecuted
church. It often grows under
adversarial context, because the
church begins to love beyond its
limit and and then that breaks
the walls, and it breaks the
barriers, right? And so we see
that all the time, Jesse and I
think that institutionally,
we're at a point now where
institutions have felt like I'm
seeing institutions like other,
you know, other categories of
people. It's not just
individuals, but it's
institutions. And so I feel like
we're in a moment now where we
have to really reimagine like
loving your enemy as a basic
discipline of what it means to
be a follower of Jesus.
Jessie Cruickshank: Yeah, I
can't agree more. I mean, I've
studied some other religions,
and I'm not not super
comprehensive, but I have not
encountered another faith that
where, where the people are told
it is a command to love your
enemy in the other other faiths
that I've looked at, it's
transactional. It's like, you
know, if they're your enemy, tax
them or, you know, put them
outside the camp and and the
faith of Jesus says, invite them
into your home. Bring them in,
bless them, keep them warm,
which is what putting coals on
their head is to like, like,
like, send them with warmth and
blessing, you know, take care of
them. And as I I just can't find
another religion that asks and
commands its followers to do
that. So, so not only does Jesus
say love your neighbor, but then
you also have to love your enemy
and treat them as if they're
family. And sometimes are, you
know, sometimes those are
synonymous. But the requirement
is always there. So there's
like, there's literally no one
we're allowed to be mean. To,
there's literally no one we're
allowed to dehumanize. There's
literally no one like even go to
the people who are in prison,
you know, so, so regardless of
of deserve merit. You know,
we're, we are required and
commanded by Jesus to go to to
love, to bless, to take care of
and we and we're because we're
supposed to just let God manage
the what we deserve and what we
don't deserve in this in this
world.
Daniel Yang: Yeah, and a part of
that, and the reason why, again,
if you go back to that part in
Matthew five, when Jesus is
talking about this, you know, he
says, You heard him say that,
you know, love your enemy and
then hate your or love your
neighbor and hate your enemy. I
think he I mean, you know this
more than I do, but Jesus has
mastered the human experience
like he knows how the body is
programmed, like he knows why
our bodies tense up. He knows
why our bodies go into fight or
flight mode, and he knows how a
body can release tension and
heal itself. And, you know,
maybe he doesn't know in the way
that a medical doctor knows it.
I don't know, but I think he's
introducing, reintroducing into
the human experience, in that
mandate that like the only way
to really overcome fear in
situations where you're going to
fight all the time, or you're
going to you know, because
hating and fighting and violence
are all sort of part of the same
spectrum, Right, is to disable
that mechanism in in your soul,
your, you know? I mean,
sometimes you will will locate
it to the amygdala, right? But
it's probably broader than just
that, that that place in our
brainstem. See, I'm going into
your field of expertise now.
Unknown: Keep
Jessie Cruickshank: going. Keep
going.
Daniel Yang: But, but, um, and I
feel like, you know, Jesus is
being very He's helping us to
identify like our seed of fear
and deface our fear. And the way
to you have to cross a
threshold, and the threshold is
going from like fearing and
hating to love. Now I don't
think he is saying, like,
necessarily, have, you know,
tremendous feelings for the
person who's murdered your
parents, like, I mean, and maybe
he's saying some version of
that, but I think what he's
generally saying is that, like,
there are categories of people
that society have told you, has
told you to be suspicious of, to
not love. You know, if you're a
Jew, it's the Gentile, right?
And he's saying, we have, we
have to overcome that. And one
of the markers of you being a
part of the kingdom is that you
know that a marker of being a
part of the kingdom is that you
press into that fear and that
hate until it becomes love,
right? And that's how you
actually bring the kingdom.
That's how you actually usher it
about. And I think it's a
strategic It's experiential, and
it's a part of what Christians
are called to do in order to
usher the kingdom,
Jessie Cruickshank: I mean, and
to be, to be a little nerdy like
it's not only necessary for our
spiritual development, but it's
also necessary for our
biological development. Because,
as I've been looking at and
leaning into loving this idea of
loving your enemy for the last
year, and looking at how the
first, the first person that we
decide is our enemy is actually
our parent. So as an infant, you
are crying and you need stuff,
and the parent doesn't fast
enough, or they get it wrong,
right? You actually are hungry
and they're changing your
diaper, or vice versa, or
whatever. And like, if you've
ever seen an angry baby, like
babies get angry, it's one of
the core emotions that we're
born with. And so the first
enemy that we have is our
caregiver. And so the first
enemy we have to overcome that
anger and that othering is is
our caregiver, so we can receive
from them. So we're so we have
to repair, we have to reconnect
with the caregiver in order to
receive from them in order to,
like, receive food and warmth
and love and, you know,
nurturing. And so as an infant,
it's a parent, and then it
becomes like a sibling or a
playmate who has the toy that we
don't have, or has the cookie we
don't have. Or, in my house, it
was growing up as the bathroom,
you know, we had one bathroom
and three kids. So there was,
there was a fight over bathroom
time because it was a limited
resource and and so you have to
learn how to forgive, repent,
reconnect with your enemy, you
know, sibling or playmate. And
then we go to school and we
experience people who don't like
us, teachers and and. If we
haven't figured out how to
repair with our enemy, we
actually then take that on in
order to be identify with the
person that we're trying to
connect with. And we make
ourself our enemy. And so we
take on the posture of an our
enemy towards us. So if you have
a parent who you can't earn
their affection, then you end up
like over identifying with them
and hating yourself. And so we
turn that enemy on ourself in
order, because we're created for
connection and and, and when
we're in enemy mode, we're not
connected, we're not connected
to God, and we're not connected
to each other. And so, so if we
don't learn how to repair with a
parent or a sibling, a playmate,
a schoolmate, then we get
stunted biologically, and then
that, I think that remains with
us spiritually. So so for me,
loving your enemy, repairing,
reconciling is is the core of
what we're supposed to do in
this life. It's how we receive
from Jesus, it's how we hear
God. It's how like so for me,
even my definition of sin is
separation. So it is the the
death that sin brings, while
that reconnection brings life.
So, so when we treat the
vulnerable like this. We are
operating in sin, not not
idealistically, because loving
our enemy is a command at every
age of our life, at every stage
of our development, it's not a
thing to aspire to. It's
actually necessary. And so I
just my heart for the body of
Christ right now is to is that
we would discover this and we
would be like, Oh no, that's
actually more important than
attending a church event. Is
learning how to love the the
person who I feel other than
right now, learning how to bless
them, learning how to go to
them, learning how to be open to
connection and and moving
through because, because unity
is a choice. Right, moving
through that you actually have
to choose to move through that
you have to choose to forgive.
You have to choose to repent.
And I just, I don't know how we
experience the kingdom without
that. I don't know where the
kingdom exists without that. So
my body, my heart hurts for the
body of Christ right now,
because we're not experiencing
the kingdom. And so I'm just,
I'm just wondering if, if you
could, you could maybe give us
some sort of like hope. Because
right now I'm like, Ah, you know
the kingdom, the kingdom
continues to come in our midst
as we do this. What is, what is
something that the people of of
the Body of Christ, the people
who are like, I'm not okay. I
know this isn't the kingdom, but
I don't I don't know what's
going on. You don't feel okay.
Like, how? How would you
encourage them right now? Or,
what? What might you say to them
in this, in this moment, in our
in our culture and in our
history?
Daniel Yang: Yeah, I'm gonna try
to make this as sort of
practical and as relatable,
because I'm realized that
everybody listening is probably
not necessarily a church leader
or institutional leader, and
you're, you're you're just a
everyday follower of Jesus, and
you just really want to bring
the kingdom to wherever you're
at. I think it is important to
to continue to have a strong
sense of like biblical identity,
because the pull away towards
that in, you know, whether it's
national or ethnic or racial
identity, which are all really
important categories, but
rooting ourselves in Scripture
and allowing the scripture to
confront biases is so important.
And so that begins with a work
of like the Holy Spirit.
Because, you know, I mean, I'll
be honest, there are a lot of
Christians. Of Christians out
there that are speaking on this
issue, and they're not informed
by a conviction of the Holy
Spirit. They're informed by the
other side of the political
spectrum, right? So I'm just,
I'm and maybe there's nothing
wrong with that in particular,
but when my advice is to be in
the Scripture so that your
conviction comes from the Holy
Spirit and your quiet times. And
then don't be afraid to exercise
your voice. And it may be scary,
you know, it may be scary to to
say, you know, to correct your
pastor and say, Hey, I think
what you said from the pulpit is
not consistent with the ethic
that Jesus presents in Matthew
in, Matthew five. And I'm not
asking anybody to to send email
complaints to the pastor, but
what, what I'm saying is that
sometimes people feel like my
pastor is not being vocal, or
he's he's actually perpetuating,
you know, othering other people.
And so exercising your voice is
in the right, in the right, you
know, approach. Is really
important, and then finding
healthy coalitions of people to
be a sounding board so that you
can have a outlet to release,
you know, the pent up negativity
that often we might feel
because, you know, for those of
us who especially feel like
advocates. We always take on
through empathy and sympathy,
you know, the energy of other
people. And so you need places
to release that, to process
that, and to be reminded that
it's not all you know, your own
work. And then the fourth thing
I would say is, for most of us,
we're not going to save the
world, but be in proximity to
people in places where you can
create impact and so and it's
probably as simple as finding
somebody at the school where
your kids go to school that feel
most threatened right now by the
recent policies, and being a
friend to them and loving them
and caring for them and letting
them know that they have the
image of God. And because for
most of us, paralysis becomes
apathy. And so the way to kind
of break out of apathy is to not
be paralyzed. And way to not be
paralyzed is to find the little,
small things where the kingdom
can break in, and that is as
simple as finding a person who
feels most threatened right now
in being present in their life,
and that that human connection
of being present in someone's
life where they feel like
they're a vulnerable immigrant
right now, that's something that
even if they get removed from
this country, like that
experience that they had with
you, they'll take with them. But
what we're seeing is that when
you're willing to be in
proximate spaces with them and
your family with them, that
reduces the chance of them
actually, you know, feeling like
they're going to be, you know,
removed, right? So I think
proximity is so important, both
for the people that you're
trying to help and it's
important for
Jessie Cruickshank: yourself.
That's so good Daniel, and I
think if I would just, if I
could just add one thing to it,
because I know some people who
may not have kids in school or
or they live in places where
they're like, I don't actually
know how to be proximal to
someone. I think about having
prayer meetings, because even
even if someone's listening to
this, this podcast five years in
the future, and some of that the
on the ground situation is has
changed, like praying for with
other people praying for whoever
is the outsider or the enemy in
your community or or that your
Lord, the Lord is moving on your
heart for like, I think that we
can always do that in every
season, because this isn't, this
isn't a New situation. I mean,
I'm, I'm, I'm the third
generation child of Irish
immigrants, and the reason why
they were in the West is because
they weren't allowed to live
anywhere else, because
Unknown: they were,
Jessie Cruickshank: they were
dirty, and all those things that
are being said about immigrants
right now, we're set about the
Irish and the Italians, right?
So like sea gangs in New York,
right? It's, it's a, it's a
thing that reoccurs so it never
goes away, which means we can
always, I think, join with other
people and pray and say, God,
you know your kingdom come, Your
will be done in these, in lives,
in our community, as it is on
heaven. And I think that can
keep us that can keep us open
and receiving for however, the
Lord would lead, Daniel, if
people want to donate to World
Relief or get involved, is
there, is there a place that
they can go? How can if, if
they're in one of those
situations where they can, they
are proximal to individuals and
they want to, they want to
connect with the work that
you're doing. How would they
find you?
Daniel Yang: Yeah, absolutely.
Worldrelief.org worldrelief.org
you can find out sort of how to,
how to connect. If your church
in particular wants to be a
place where you create belonging
and welcoming for others, you
can also go to churches of
welcome.com which is also a
World Relief website, so
worldly.org for our work. And
then if you want to be involved
and take action, churches of
welcome.com.
Jessie Cruickshank: Well, it's
so been, it's been so good to
have you. Thank you for joining
me on this conversation today. I
appreciate you. I appreciate
your heart. I appreciate your
family. Yeah, just beautiful. So
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